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Should I take the risk of falling in love with him?


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This guy just came into my life all of a sudden and out of nowhere. I just happen to pass by a certain post on my social media account and I left a comment that expressed my opinion on the topic. This guy decided to contradict me and replied a contrary opinion on my comment. We exchanged some points in the comment box and he eventually sent me a direct message to continue our discussion. He gets amused whenever I get annoyed at how I can’t actually win an argument with him. He never fails to annoy me everyday but at the same time, he shows me he cares as he checks on me to know what I’m doing and if I am doing okay. He really can be annoying and sweet all the same time and for that, I started to feel a foreign feeling that I haven’t actually felt for this guy before. Later, I realized I am already starting to fall for him. However, the problem is that he is not from my country. He is miles away and I don’t know if he does feel the same way that I do. Should I still take the risk or should I withdraw myself from all of these as early as now?


His checking on you doesn't mean it's love. He may simply be enjoying the banter you have between you. If he gets on your nerves it doesn't mean you can't fall for him. It happens and I've seen it. But don't let the energy of your verbal sparring be mistaken for something it might not necessarily be. You could try steering the convo toward matters of romance and see what he has to say about that. And maybe you can guage his feelings. But keep in mind that if he's from a foreign country there's little chance it's going to go the distance, and not worth risking anyway. Be cautious and remember there are lots of fish in the sea.