Hello, recently me and my boyfriend have started arguing a lot more. A couple of days ago he told me that he wants me to change a lot <- his words exactly. Some of the things that he wants me to do differently is talk less about when people annoy me or when I'm in pain (I have a lot of physical issues). This question honestly hurt my feelings because I feel as if he was the only one I could talk about it with, and I didn't even bring it up a lot, and now he is asking me to stop talking about my pains etcetera. I'm a mix of emotions at the moment and I was wondering if you feel as if his request is reasonable or not?