Just finding my place in this world
Hi everyone, I have turned to the forums for this advice because I need thoughts and opinions that are not influenced. There is this guy, we'll call him Henry. He has had a significant part in my life for about four years now. I always turned to him when I had guy problems or needed advice, he saved my life, almost all of my firsts were with him. But he has changed a lot. He still is the same caring person but he has lost his self. He smokes weed almost too much, I have nothing against weed but everyone is worried about him. He used to draw and go take photos all the time but he never does that anymore, he mostly just smokes. I miss the old Henry, the one who I always relied on. The one who I was falling in love with. I have talked to a lot of my guy friends and they all said I should help me get back to his old self but is that too much? Am I overstepping? What can I do to get his old self back and fall back in love? I still love him I just want the old him back...