Joanna2000
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When I was in college up until about 2 years ago, there was a guy in my class who all the girls from day one had found hugely attractive - basically, he was like the stereotypical 6'6 Greek god with a perfect face - and one thing that I always noticed was that he seemed to get away with lots of things.
He would always get invitations from girls on dates right from the very beginning, and this gave him a reputation of sleeping around a lot, and this was sort of supported by the fact that he always switched girls - I saw him with a new girl pretty much every week, and I had heard a few girls from my class tell me that he had indeed cheated on them, but they still tried to find explanations for this (such as maybe he never thought of them as actual partners and things like that).
The point is that he seemed to be able to cheat on girls if he wanted to do that, and apparently could get away with it without getting a particularly bad reputation
In fact, I could sometimes see him get aoproached by several girls at once, who tried to snag him, and he would either agree on a date with one of them at a time, or decide to hang out with all of them.
He also seemed to be able to get a bit physical with girls from our class, like for example he could embrace some random girl while she was at her locker for a while, and I could even see him spontaneously spank girls a little bit if he was behind them - not in super-ovious ways of course, but enough so that I could see it.
And those girls never seemed troubled by that, they just giggled at it and looked a bit surprised, and seemed to take it as a compliment, kind of like "wow I get attention from the hot guy".
I do think that most girls in our class were interested in him, and he would generally do these things to girls who had flirted with him at some point.
I personally stayed away from him, since I didn't trust him, so I didn't get that much contact with him, apart from some spontaneous flirting if ge caught me looking at him.
Is it common for a guy like him to get away with being a physical player like this?
How does this work?
He would always get invitations from girls on dates right from the very beginning, and this gave him a reputation of sleeping around a lot, and this was sort of supported by the fact that he always switched girls - I saw him with a new girl pretty much every week, and I had heard a few girls from my class tell me that he had indeed cheated on them, but they still tried to find explanations for this (such as maybe he never thought of them as actual partners and things like that).
The point is that he seemed to be able to cheat on girls if he wanted to do that, and apparently could get away with it without getting a particularly bad reputation
In fact, I could sometimes see him get aoproached by several girls at once, who tried to snag him, and he would either agree on a date with one of them at a time, or decide to hang out with all of them.
He also seemed to be able to get a bit physical with girls from our class, like for example he could embrace some random girl while she was at her locker for a while, and I could even see him spontaneously spank girls a little bit if he was behind them - not in super-ovious ways of course, but enough so that I could see it.
And those girls never seemed troubled by that, they just giggled at it and looked a bit surprised, and seemed to take it as a compliment, kind of like "wow I get attention from the hot guy".
I do think that most girls in our class were interested in him, and he would generally do these things to girls who had flirted with him at some point.
I personally stayed away from him, since I didn't trust him, so I didn't get that much contact with him, apart from some spontaneous flirting if ge caught me looking at him.
Is it common for a guy like him to get away with being a physical player like this?
How does this work?
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