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Insecure about my body


New Member
How do I style a sleeve less fit without the constant anxiety of getting body shamed for my big arms? I hate my arms I’m not a big girl or plus sized it’s just all my fat sits on my arms and I have relatively large shoulders. Anybody else who have the same problem? I want wear a cute top but my arms can’t show and the shirt can’t sit tight on my arms! And I want all my shirts to be black that way I appear smaller!


Staff member
You might like to wear a light shawl around your shoulders so that it covers your arms. Or maybe sew loose-fitting sleeves onto your sleeveless tops?

If people are body-shaming you, hon, they have a problem. It isn't about you anymore. It's about them and how they probably don't like themselves very much so they project how they feel about themselves, onto you. ;)