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I Hate Him But I Like Him


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Three years ago a new guy came in to my school. We have most classes together now. Well the thing is, he's annoying as ****. He's always up in everyone's business and he hates me. He's always saying something about my height (i'm kinda short), my clothes ("oh wow, you're wearing jeans today, haven't seen you in jeans since last tuesday" in the middle of math class), the fact that i'm the only child and claimes that i'm spoiled (even though i get everything from flea markets and he gets a new pair of shoes from his parents every week), the fact that i'm alive, breathing, living.... And when he's being annoying, i'll be annoying back... But damn i have the biggest crush on him. He's always hanging out with a bunch of girls who have committed their lives to laughing at his jokes and clinging to him. I mean he can be nice too... And i'm pretty sure he's a good person, i just freak out whenever he says anything to me and i just end up insulting him or something. And we're going to different schools after summer (maybe, he doesn't know where he's going yet) and there's no way i'll even be able to talk to him during summer, i'm like the most socially anxious introvert to exist on the planet... I just need some help with something, anything, please it's been three years and i have no idea why i like him so much. We fight like a married couple


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Maybe you fight like a married couple because you have a genuine rapport and comfort level with each other. Some guys use insults as a form of flirting. Think about why you're attracted to him; is it because of his personality, chemistry or is it something like a badboy attraction. If it's the latter I'd say it wasn't worth it. But if you feel you have real chemistry, go for it and see where it goes. If you're both going to different schools after summer it may be a good opportunity to try things out now. If they don't work out, you won't have to see him again. But if they do work out, you can adjust your future plans and make arrangements accordingly. Personally it sounds to me like he's interested, and it seems you are too. Maybe you should see just how far your mutual interest goes.