So girls about 8 months ago I was in a relationship that lasted about 9 months I broke up with him because he became very rude to me and possessive would want me wearing certain clothes didn’t want me going out. Every thing I did for him was thrown back in my face it was just a bad time for me the last month with him. We ended up on bad terms basically police was involved from domestic abuse and him showing up at my house drunk for months after we broke up. But now this is the problem I have been talking to this new guy for a few weeks and he asked me if my ex is my ex and I said yes. Turned out they are friends I had no clue I know they do the same job but didn’t know they are friends. I am still kinda talking to this guy and my ex knows we are I am just wonders should I carry on seeing this guy or is it not worth it. I feel like my ex is just going to make up lies about me to him if he isn’t already. Or it is going to cause problems and my ex will start showing up at my door again he is easily made angry. Or maybe my ex is over me and will let me move on.