Getting married to get out of financial struggles?

[bbybellaxx]

Hello girls, I need some advice on how should I approach this. I just turned 22, there's a man who is 58 year old who's asking for my hand in marriage in return for my financial stability. Do you think it's worth it? At one point it's really nice cause it's an easy way out and I can build business from his money too.. But at the same time I fear that I might missing out on life.

 

[Anzu21]

It sounds promising, but I say to you: some things aren't worth the money! If I were you, I wouldn't accept it! You're better off building yourself up! Sure, it's lot a harder and takes a long time, but at least it will be for you. Besides, that man may be looking for someone he feels he can bully and control, and that's probably why he asked you! This isn't an arranged marriage; you don't have to marry him!

 

[Anzu21]

My friend a few years ago was also in a similar situation and was also not very eager to spend her youth with an unloved man, but she spent her whole life in poverty (she was raised by her grandmother, then she fell ill and my friend had to work and take care of her grandmother from an early age) and she really wanted to live in financial stability. She nevertheless married this man, she spent the money that he gave her not on trinkets and clothes and entertainment, but on self-development, courses, books. As a result, she found herself, her hobby, which grew into a business and eventually into her own business, and since she registered her company, her income is growing every day and she has gained real financial independence.

Wow, that's amazing! I'm glad for your friend!