How closely are people looking at our legs!

Maybe ladies with a lot of leg hair could wear dark colored panty-hose or leggings.
That's my point: maybe we (as women) should be more supportive and accepting of each others' differences. It's bad enough that too many men are quick to criticize us for doing a quarter of what they do, without us turning on each other and acting catty or b****-y: "Oh, did you see what
she was wearing?..."
You're right. I do spend more time, than men, grooming myself (probably) but that's because I have long hair. I know men who can just run their fingers through their hair and they're ready to walk out the door!
I make sure I'm clean and presentable but other than that, I don't worry too much about grooming.
It's fine for women who do but I would rather spend my time doing other things (like helping people). It's just priorities.
Besides, if I walked around looking like I just stepped away from doing a cover shoot for Vogue, I could attract a lot of male attention - but the attention might be from guys who are only interested in beautiful-looking women. Unfortunately, those men will often stop paying attention to you as soon as someone more beautiful comes along - like it says in the book in my signature.
But if I'm just my natural looking self and a man is interested in me, chances are he's the kind of man who looks beyond the surface to the "beauty" within. And those men don't seem to have much of a "roving eye".
As people, I feel our time is better spent "grooming" who we are on the inside; what kind of a person we are, how we treat others. That's where I wanna be drop-dead-gorgeous!

Because when we're old and gray and on our deathbed, it won't matter what we looked like. It'll be how we lived our life, whether we made a positive difference in the world, whether we were good to others that'll matter - not whether we looked "good".
