Okay I have a question for everyone. Now my kids are good out in public and when we go places but when we are home its a whole other ball game. I can control them. I spank my kids when need to be and raise my voice doesn't work. I take things away from them and it doesn't work. What should I do to get them to listen to me? Oh and my kids ages are 9, 6, and 3 two girls n a boy.