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I would recommend doing something casual (like coffee). That way, if the date doesn't go well, you won't get indigestion - lol - and you don't have to spend a lot of time with the person. If the date goes well, you can always go on another date and have a leisurely meal then.
Please don't drink alcohol unless you know the person very well (and even then, I wouldn't recommend it because there's a big chance you might end up having sex with that person, even if you normally wouldn't if you were sober). There's a greater chance of having unprotected sex (which can result in getting an STD, pregnant, etc.), a greater chance of being sexually assaulted, robbed, etc.
For sure ! I also thought that dinner is better for the next date ! When you go to eat with someone, probably you can’t discuss much because you re eating! A coffee is a better way to start getting to know each other ! ^_^
I cannot stress enough the importance of sobriety on a first date. Seriously, we all know that one drink very rarely is one drink, and furthermore how can you possibly know if you make a real connection with an impaired mind? Trust me, I'm no prude and I enjoy my cocktails, but I've learned from experience that having a sober first date is the only way to have a true unclouded perception of the person you are with