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Diva in Waiting GracieJ is offline
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12-01-2008, 01:38 AM

Friends with different beliefs

I have a few friends that live in a more conservative part of the country, and I find myself having problems staying friends with them. As much as I always want to talk about a different subject, some of them always bring it back to politics and religion, which I don't like to discuss with friends. Does anybody have suggestions on how I can deal with this in the future? I want to be able to defend myself, but I feel like I shouldn't have to do that with my friends!
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12-02-2008, 03:24 AM
If they are your friends then they should respect the fact that you are not comfortable with the conversation always revolving around that kind of thing. Tell them that its out of bounds now, and if they can't handle it then say goodbye.
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12-14-2008, 12:28 AM
I agree with the poster above, if you are not comfortable debating politics and religion then they should (if they are really your friends) respect that and not make you feel like you need to defend yourself and your opinions.
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12-16-2008, 05:13 AM
Politics and religion are very sensitive subjects to be openly discussed. I can understand the reasons why you don't like to discus about them as when it comes to such a topic, people are very defensive and narrow minded in sticking to their faith and believes.

I, too, think that it is not worth "fighting" or arguing with our friends over such matters as it will only make one's relationship goes sour. Talking on other less sensitive issues will only make our friendship a better one.
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