Do You Want to Date

I haven't been dating for a while as I've recently got out of a messy relationship and was asked this by a friend. Thinking it innocent I answered yes, and of course was then hit with the; "Well when should I pick you up?".

He really did frame it innocently-it was a good question!

i dont get it??

Your friend sure has a very direct approach in wanting to date you. I wonder what will be the look on his face if you reject him by telling him straight to his face.

Awww - that was a good one. I like it. I haven't been dating either and pretty much for the same reason as you. I guess I'll just take it easy for a while yet until it happens - like it did for you.

Waiting seems to have suited me, I just wasn't bothered about being involved with a guy. So we're not rushing or anything, in fact our 'date' is in March. So yeah, really not rushing!

Yeah, and you could also be upfront from the beginning that you are really not into much heavy dating even after that unless you change you mind of course, but make sure the lessons learned from previous relationships is applied in this one.