A lonely Christmas...

It's almost Christmas again and it seems like I will be without any serious guy company. I am definitely NOT looking forward to a lonely Christmas - what should a girl do?

Oh Farrah. Do you have family you could spend Christmas with? Mum and dad maybe? How about brothers and sisters? The up side of it all is thats one less person you have to buy for right? I mean, we all know how hard it is to budget when you have everybody to buy for, and in exactly one week from Christmas is New Years Eve!! The best night of the year to get absolutely rat arsed and dance the night away.
Don't get too upset Farrah. Christmas is overrated anyway. You don't need a man to have a good Christmas. Just a bit of booze (if you're legal) I think thats why its tradition for our family to have Champainge breakfasts.... lunches and.... zzzzz.... dinner.

Aww,Dont be dissapointed,sweety.I am with you too.I dont have any guy..But see,I am still happy? (Or atleast I think so).I think this is a serious problem on girls...They think "they're nothing without a man" ...YEAH AS IF!! Shutup,and do something! Girls love to shop,Why dont you try shopping with your friends. (^_^)

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The upside...guys are looking for girls right now. This is the time of year that guys are woman-hunting. They look for happy girls who seem to have their act together...so get out there with your girlfriends...laugh and have a GREAT time...a man will be sure to walk over to you when he sees that beautiful smile. Hang in there, honey...men are thinking the same thing...they want a woman by their side.

Keep your head up and get out there so the men can see you having a great time!!

And men are scared of rejection...so make sure you break from the pack of girls once and awhile (especially if you see a guy eyeing you, don't hang out with men that could be mistaken as a boyfriend, and don't be afraid to approach him (a lot of men actually like that). Good luck and happy man hunting, sweetie!!!

Due to some of my 'errant ways', my parents and I are not exactly chums. No we are not at the the each others throats either but I tend to avoid them and the lectures...know what I mean?

I don't think I need guys to validate me either but I hate the lonely feeling, and it's mainly at this time that I feel it most.

Shopping...? Not enough money to waste on that dearies....

About the shopping...just window shop. I do that all the time. I do not have much money either...but I walk around the mall once and awhile. Just go out and have fun...you don't have to spend money, but you do have to go out so the men can see you. How will they know you are out there if you are in the house?

About the parents...it can be really tough, because they try to look out for you and tend to forget that you need to make some mistakes on your own. No one wants their kids to face the pain they did...so they tend to stop you before they give you the chance to goof up and get hurt. And your parents are human and make mistakes, get angry,annoyed, and upset just like we all do and they sometimes let their emotions get in the way showing you love.

Be strong!! I use to be lonely and made a LOT of mistakes because of it. NEVER NEVER NEVER settle for less!!

Now, go out there and show smiling self...let the guys druel over that beautiful smile!!!

If its any comfort, we are not able to celebrate at all this year. So when I am sat in my dull, not decorated house with no gifts, watching the neighbour's beautiful lights, I'll spare you a thought.